You Write about Anger in the Heart of a Fool

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Sixth Letter
You write about anger in the heart of a fool
"So listen to me once again. Lay a solid foundation. Build a beautiful little palace in the heavens. Clean the inside of the
cup, as the Lord instructs us, so that the outside becomes
clean as well, because everything done with the body 
resembles leaves which merely decorate the outer man.
Those works are well and good, but everything I have written
to you about previously is what cleanses a person internally.
These things will open the eyes of the soul. It is through them
that the heart is purified to see God on that day. For without 
noetic work, there is little benefit from outer works.

If you do not see tears pouring forth every time you remember
God, you suffer from ignorance, which leads to pride and 
hardness of heart. So let humility serve as a garment in all
your actions, and become a sponge in the brotherhood that 
mops up every reproach and abasement. Do not water your
soul with honors and praises but with reproaches and
accusations, even if you are innocent.

Never seek to find what is just, because then you are unjust.
On the contrary, learn to endure temptations bravely, regardless
of what kind the Lord permits. Without a lot of excuses, just say,
"Forgive me !" and without actually being at fault, repent as if
you were. Do so with conviction of soul; not just outwardly
admitting to be at fault for the sake of praise, while inwardly
judging.

During times of affliction do not seek human consolation,
so that God may console you.

The bridge we must all cross is to forgive the transgressions of others. However if you don't forgive them, you destroy the bridge 
that you should have crossed. So become a good model and
example to others through your good and God-pleasing deeds
and do not wish to defeat everyone with your words.

Do not think that you will find rest when you speak out
seeking justice for yourself. Justice is to endure with bravery
the temptation that comes so that you emerge victorious, whether
or  not you are at fault. But if you say, "But why?", you are 
fighting against God Who sent the afflictions because of your
passionate* (see notes below) condition. God disciplines us so
that we reach dispassion. Thus, if you do not endure it, truly you
are fighting against God.

You write about anger in the heart of a fool. Anger in itself is 
natural. Just as the body has nerves, the soul has anger. Every-
one should use it against the demons, heretics, and anyone who 
hinders us from the path of God. However, if you get angry with
your fellow brothers, or get in a rage and ruin the works of your 
hands, know that you are suffering from vainglory and are 
abusing the nerve of your soul. You are delivered from this 
passion through love towards all and true humility.

Therefore when anger comes, close your mouth tightly, and do
not speak to him who curses, dishonors, reproaches or bothers
you in any way without reason. Then this snake will writhe around
in your heart, rise up to your throat, and (since you don't give it a
way out) will choke and suffocate. When this is repeated several
times, it will diminish and cease entirely.

Since man was created rational and gentle, he is corrected far
better with love and gentleness than with anger and harshness.
after much and through testing, I have also found that with
goodness and love you can pacify many. And if someone is of 
good intentions, you can quickly make him comply and become
and angel of God.

So this is what I would say to you and to everyone: never seek
to correct each other with anger, but only with humility and 
sincere love, because one temptation does not cast out another
temptation. When you see anger ahead, forget about correcting
for the moment. Once you see that the anger has passed, that
peace has come, and that your powers of discernment are 
functioning correctly, then you can speak beneficially.

I have never seen anyone corrected through anger, but always
through love: and then he will even make sacrifices. Therefore,
this is how you should act. Take yourself for example: how are
you pacified - with curses or with love?

Don't you marvel at the words of that saint in 'The Sayings of the
Desert Fathers', "An angry and irritable man is not accepted in
the kingdom of God even if he raises the dead!" ?

For the rest of the letter please read, Monastic Wisdom, The
Letters of Elder Joseph the Hesychast p.60-63, St Anthony's
Greek Orthodox Monastery, Florence, AZ 85232 

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Notes:
Passionate-
The word 'passionate' in this text is not used in any of the
secular senses of the word, but it is used to describe
someone or something subject to the passions.

Passion-
A passion is a spiritual disease that dominates the soul. 
When one repeatedly falls into a certain sin, it becomes 
second nature-a passion-for him to keep falling into this 
sin. Thus, one who misuses the God given powers of the
soul, of desire and anger, or one who succumbs to 
temptations of lust, hate, malice, or jealousy, or one who
succumbs to pride and vainglory, acquires those passions.
It is primarily through obedience to an experienced elder
that one is cleansed or healed of the passions and reaches
dispassion.